We arrive late Friday evening, the only two UCR students that will participate this year. Usually more are allowed to join, more veterans, more scholars; but this year the project has been scaled back to focus their support on veterans, the main beneficiaries of Waterloo Uncovered. This charity is unique, because it changes lives – not on some high, abstract level, but for real and within only two weeks. That’s what they told us before we arrived in Nivelles, a small town near Waterloo in Belgium, and that’s what we will get to witness over the next two weeks.
The welcome is warm, whether people have known each other since their university days, sicne 2015 (when the charity started) or for only five minutes – the comradeship, which is the centre of this project, is immediately there. We will all life together in the same hotel, and that’s where we meet everyone for the first time, too. On the terrace of the hotel, over a glass of beer, we shake hands and exchange names, and just like that the conversations bubble up around us. As students, we’re the youngest there, and at first we merely listen to the stories that are being exchanged, but soon, questions are asked and the jokes start. I quickly realise that no topic is off-limits, no jokes taboo. I ask someone about the group dynamic and he simply says – ‘earn their respect and they’ll trust you.” – that’s how simple it is.
This evening dictates the coming two weeks. Quickly we realise that it does not matter where you come from, what you’ve experienced; we’re all here to work together towards the same goal; as long as you do your bit, you are part of the team. This is the agenda we live by, whether we excavate in the summer heat during the day, play in the pool in the afternoon, or eat dinner together in the evening before migrating to the bar to exchange stories and jokes. Whether veteran, professor, or 19-year-old student – comradeship quickly transforms into friendship as we get to know each other better.
That is what makes this project so special – its ability to bring people together and create unique connections between them. People who would normally never meet become friends and the possibility to learn not only from each other but with each other opens miraculously. Soon you notice how the stories that are being told in the evening become more personal and step closer to actual lived experiences – more than a few tears are shed as proof of that. There, in a bar in a hotel in the middle of Belgium, we hear stories that will forever stay with us and touch our hearts, stories that before were unspoken, that this unique environment can give space to.